In a conversation a few weeks ago I posted some idea’s
I had on 5th Edition D&D and it’s representation of minorities
to a gaming page on Facebook. During the conversation one of the posters
commented that having an organization (or group) with race in the name only
contributed to the problem. I immediately dismissed the man as racist because
who hasn't heard that line before? In my day to day life the only people who
typically complained about race being in the name of an organization where the
ones who refused to admit that there were still problems of race in this
country. Such is the state of the post racial world we live in.
Then
my friend Mike asked me a similar question. He felt that I couldn't be as
inclusive as I wanted to be if I placed blackness first and foremost in my
mind. My friend Mike is French and lives in Asia so coming from him I can
understand why he didn't understand why I felt the remark was racist.
But
this isn’t a post about why the comment was racist. It’s a post to explain why
race figures prominently in my mind. I think when you’re a minority and you’re
used to being in the out group you inherently understand how favoring your
group doesn’t mean you want to exclude others. I think when you’re in the
majority you tend not to find the need to be around people like you so you can
draw upon a collective strength of the group as a whole when dealing with
adversity.
For
many minority groups, race may be a part of the name but it is far from the
total objective. When I was doing my undergrad degree I was part of an Asian
Students Association. They took great pride in their Asian heritage, but they
were a group that was open to all. My brother used to be a member of a Mexican
American student society when he was in school. They took great pride in their
Mexican heritage but they were also a group open to teaching anyone about
Mexican heritage and allowed anyone to join.
And
this is a very common thing to see in many minority organizations. Not everyone
in the NAACP is black. Furthermore the NAACP doesn’t just fight for black
rights. Sure that is their primary focus but they stand in support of the
rights for other minorities. NOW (National Organization for Women) primary
membership is women but they don’t discriminate against men either. The
organization itself has had male membership as well. Or take a look at most
LGBT organizations. Their sexuality will figure into the name but these groups
are not just for LGBT people, straight allies are always welcome in such
groups.
So
the use of your minority status is a fairly common thing. It doesn’t denote an
attempt to create more problems but to acknowledge how they are different. It
also helps to recruit like minded individuals. By having black in the name of
my group I make it easy for other black gamers to find and identify with the
group.
But
also just as importantly, when I write I write from my own perspective. I can
not claim to know or understand the difficulties in being an Asian gamer or a
female gamer. But I can tell you what it’s like to be a black gamer. And my
thoughts on gaming are in part informed by my experiences as a black man. And I
think that my message will probably resonant strongly with other black gamers
who can likely relate to similar experiences.
I’ll
always support the efforts of other types of gamers. I may talk from the perspective
of a black male, but I do 100% stand for a more inclusive gaming space for
everyone regardless of skin color, gender or sexuality. But I think I do my
best work when I’m writing from the places I know.
So
until next time enjoy one of the best songs about names.
Personally I find specificity a barrier--but I understand coming from a place that warrants clear definition of intent.
ReplyDeleteI don't know. I guess I've just always experienced it differently. Like it wasn't so much a barrier as a point to come together on. But I've always been a member of some ethnic or culture club all through school and so for me it just seemed common place.
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